Dr. Allison Anderson

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523 appearances 1 recordings 1 series first heard Sep 2025 last heard 30 Sep

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And if you're pursuing them, they cannot pursue you.
So again, it's the same thing as if you're in a relationship.
Lean back.
It doesn't mean make no effort.
You got to get on the apps.
You got to go out.
You got to do things if you want to find your person.
But lean back a little bit.
Don't be...
Trying to initiate all the conversations.
Don't be the one that's always following up.
Don't double text people on the apps if you're in conversation.
If he doesn't respond, stop texting him again and again, okay?
It gets a little bit funny because like, for example, Bumble is one app where it is like female driven.
So, like, in order to start a conversation, the woman actually has to initiate it after you've matched.
And that is, you know, a feature that I think a lot of women view as a good thing and something that creates a little bit of a sense of safety because they have to be the one that expresses interest, you know, first.
So, yeah, on Bumble, you're going to have to initiate conversations.
But even after you do that...
Don't continue to pursue the conversation if he's not stepping forward.
Don't put all your energy on who's texting me and did they respond and how many matches do I have?
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