Dr. Allison Anderson
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first heard Sep 2025
last heard 30 Sep
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Put that energy on yourself.
Have a set amount of time maybe that you go on the apps each day, do your swiping, make any connections that you make, respond to messages that you've gotten, and then focus back on you and be patient because he's coming.
Yeah, that's exactly right.
That's exactly right.
And I think that
because we've succeeded so much professionally and there was some kind of a checklist and then step A leads to step B and et cetera, like we try to do that in our dating lives.
And we're like, well, let me get my spreadsheet out of the men and their traits.
And I got all these specifications and let me check this one off the list.
And, you know, we just don't know better.
But when we do that, we really often will end up in a partnership that's not actually what we want it to be.
And then that's when I see women down the line saying,
who are like, why do I have to do everything in the relationship?
And it's like, well, number one, you don't actually have to, but you are in that habit because that's how you started and that's how you are.
So it's up to you to change that if you want to change it.
Yeah.
And so this gets tricky, right?
Because if you're in a dynamic with your partner where you really do all the things and you have that sort of almost masculine energy in your relationship that you're in charge, you're deciding, you're dictating, it's most likely that your partner is very comfortable in the sort of softer role.
And, you know, most of the men don't want to hear this, but they might be a lot in their feminine energy.
They're the ones leaning back.
They're the ones coasting along because you've got it and you do all the things.
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