Dr. Alok Kanojia
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15,130 appearances
26 recordings
1 series
first heard Jun 2026
last heard 4d ago
Dr. Alok Kanojia’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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So I've been meaning to make this video for a while because there's a lot of advice out there.
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And a lot of the advice, I got to just be honest with you all, kind of like pisses me off.
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So here's an example.
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like fear is not the avoidance of death.
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It is the avoidance of life.
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Oh my God.
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Fear isn't what saves a relationship.
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Fear is what destroys relationships.
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And so the first thing that I kind of noticed when I was like looking at dating advice or breakup advice on the Internet is that what determines the advice that you see has nothing to do with outcomes.
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It has everything to do with the emotional state of the person who has recently broken up.
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So if I've been dumped, which video am I likely to click on?
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Which video empathically resonates with me?
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when i hear statements like this like there's some value to it right like absolutely fear does prevent us from doing certain things in life that are good for us like that's like actually like obviously but also if i'm afraid that my boyfriend or girlfriend's bestie at work who happens to be the gender that they're attracted to their work husband or their work wife if i'm afraid of their relationship that fear can be very helpful in saving the relationship
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If I'm going on a date with someone who's kind of a creep and is like, hey,
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Please come back.
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Don't go.
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Fear in that situation doesn't prevent life.
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It prevents death, which is the basic problem with a lot of the dating advice out there.
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Right.
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And everyone is sure that this is what you should do after a breakup.
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