Dr. Alok Kanojia

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15,130 appearances 26 recordings 1 series first heard Jun 2026 last heard 6d ago

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HealthyGamerGG · The Secret to Fixing Your Adulthood · 19 Sep 2026 podcast

Loved in the way that a child was loved as an adult, to be spoiled, to be indulgent. voice-verified

And I think there are a couple of really good examples of this through Eric Erickson, which I think make a lot of sense. voice-verified

Here is the progress bar of childhood. voice-verified

When we're somewhere around three to six years old, we have this basic task of initiative versus guilt. voice-verified

So what does this mean? voice-verified

So when a child is like two, they don't have choices, they can't demonstrate. voice-verified

Initiative that they don't like get to decide what we're doing today. voice-verified

They don't get to control or steer their life at all. voice-verified

But once we get to be about three, four, five, and six, that's when we can demonstrate initiative. voice-verified

Hey, today I want to go to the zoo. voice-verified

Or if we go to the zoo, I want to see the anacondas, not the tigers. voice-verified

And a five-year-old can demonstrate, like they can try to steer the car of their life in small ways. voice-verified

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Way that people respond to that is really important. voice-verified

Okay. voice-verified

So when I want to do something, I want to see tigers, or let's say I want to see snakes, which means that I have an initiative. voice-verified

And let's say that my parents have a phobia of snakes. voice-verified

So they say, no, snakes are for Slytherins, and we are Gryffindors. voice-verified

This is bad. voice-verified

How dare you like snakes? voice-verified

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