Dr. Alok Kanojia
speaker
15,637 appearances
27 recordings
1 series
first heard Jun 2026
last heard 2d ago
Dr. Alok Kanojia’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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recordings per month · last 12 monthsRecordings per month over the last 12 months — 27 in all, peaking in Aug 2026 with 10.
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Like everyone's entitled, I suppose, to be happy in life.
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But now this is another huge change, which could involve blended families and siblings and stuff like that, which the child has no agency in.
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These are just things that you have to accept.
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And
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So as the child's agency is removed, this creates all kinds of other downstream problems.
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Like I've now learned to take the shit that life shovels into my mouth, right?
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What impact does that have on their competing from a promotion for their tolerance of abuse?
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This is once again where externalizing issue uh externalizing behaviors come in, addictions, things like that, because you have to deal with it.
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So then we get to the big one, which is relationships.
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So studies suggest that children of divorced parents have more difficulty in relationships, are more likely to engage in short-term relationships, and also have a higher rate of divorce.
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So why is that?
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The first thing is that we learn how to navigate relationships primarily from our parents.
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So when a child has divorced parents, they miss out on conflict resolution.
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They miss out on f seeing how to make things work.
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They miss out on perseverance.
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They miss out on compromise.
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They miss out on sacrifice.
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Right.
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And a divorced family can still have those elements.
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You can have a healthy co-parenting relationship.
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