Dr. Alok Kanojia

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15,637 appearances 27 recordings 1 series first heard Jun 2026 last heard 2d ago

Dr. Alok Kanojia’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.

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Recordings per month over the last 12 months — 27 in all, peaking in Aug 2026 with 10.

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HealthyGamerGG · What Divorce Does To A Child · 21 Sep 2026 podcast

So I'm not saying that these things are completely absent. voice-verified

What I'm saying that the data really suggests is that you can have a healthy co-parenting relationship, but it's gonna be the basketball voice-verified

Dribble again, where it's like, yeah, you can like mitigate that damage, but you can't really remove it. voice-verified

And what there's overwhelming data that children of divorced parents have more insecure attachment styles, right? voice-verified

So we have a deep dive into attachment styles over here, but they're more anxious in relationships, they're more clingy in relationships, they feel less secure in relationships, or they flip on the other side, which is they're more avoidant. voice-verified

So they're a voice-verified

Of commitment. voice-verified

And why are they afraid of commitment? voice-verified

Because the foundation in their life disappeared. voice-verified

There is a fundamental mistrust of other people. voice-verified

That's a huge part. voice-verified

And the second thing is that they lack the skills for conflict resolution because they didn't really see them. voice-verified

And this can become a really scary, self-fulfilling prophecy because you've seen that things can end in divorce, so you are more hesitant to voice-verified

Go all in, you're more hesitant to make make a commitment. voice-verified

And this is compounded by the fact that you may lack the skills to solve problems. voice-verified

So not only are you less likely to commit, as you get into bumps in the relationship, your ability to navigate those problems actually becomes weaker, right? voice-verified

Which means things are more likely to fall apart. voice-verified

And as you saw this happen in voice-verified

Your parents and you saw it in your relationship number one and relationship number two, that only reinforces your fear of commitment. voice-verified

So now you're like, okay, like this is scary, this doesn't really work well. voice-verified

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