Dr. Alok Kanojia
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15,637 appearances
27 recordings
1 series
first heard Jun 2026
last heard 2d ago
Dr. Alok Kanojia’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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recordings per month · last 12 monthsRecordings per month over the last 12 months — 27 in all, peaking in Aug 2026 with 10.
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I you don't really think like I don't know how to do this.
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That that conscious awareness is oftentimes rarely there, although sometimes it's there.
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Right.
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And so this creates a lot of problems for relationships.
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And the last thing that's kind of related is that there wasn't
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Was something that you were taught, which is that if a relationship doesn't work, you just leave.
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That's the solution.
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So there is modeling, a fundamental level of modeling, of avoidance of relationships when problems happen, just split up.
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And that can be the most devastating.
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And so there's a there's a video that we have about kind of basically dealing with emotional baggage and processing trauma in the guide to love, sex, and relationships, where we sort of talk about if
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Want to date successfully, here are all the things that you need to know how to do that are kind of boiled down, that becomes really relevant for people like this.
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So the biggest problem is that despite all of the things that you do right, there is no such thing as a good divorce.
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And so as a psychiatrist, the tricky thing is when I work with children of divorced parents, it's not the chief complaint that they come in, oh Dr.
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Cam, I I'm afraid of commitment.
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What we start to uncover is when they enter into a relationship.
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They have a stress system that's miscalibrated because their fundamental safety from home was never there.
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So they're prone to anxiety.
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They're prone to see the worsen things.
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They don't know how to manage when they feel uncomfortable outside of video games, addictions, things like that.
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And so that's why, like, we have these fundamental things, like this two and a half hour deep dive into stress, is to help you rewire that stuff.
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