Dr. Becky Bailey
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451 appearances
1 recordings
1 series
first heard Feb 2020
last heard Feb 2020
Dr. Becky Bailey’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Everyone knows this.
You walk in a room when some problem's been distraught in a house and you go, oh, you can feel it in your body.
Uh-oh, bad time.
You know, I'll come back later.
I mean, we can feel this.
The kids feel it, of course, intensely.
So when you walk in with that, you're stuck with three skills and none of them are going to get you anywhere because they're going to
either going defending against what might happen so you're already charged up or you're going in ready to attack when they don't so if you go in with the presence of love that means love that means you are walking in the best person you can walk into that situation so you've already regulated yourself you've come up to the higher centers of your brain from that state in the higher centers of the brain
You don't see stuff as threat like from fear.
Everything you look at from the lens of fear looks like there's a threat coming.
But when you're in the higher centers of your brain, you actually have the opportunity to make up your perception.
You have a choice.
So in the lower centers, you have no choice.
We have a brain in the lower centers, very similar to animals.
It just works that way.
Pull yourself up to the higher centers, and then you can access your own inner wisdom.
You can access choice.
I can actually see that behavior, not as good and bad, but I can see it as unsafe and safe.
I can see that behavior is that child is tremendously upset.
So I must walk in as the calmest thing.
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