Dr. Becky Bailey
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451 appearances
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first heard Feb 2020
last heard Feb 2020
Dr. Becky Bailey’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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I must show up as Buddha, for God's sake.
in that moment.
And then when I get to that higher center, that center of where I can access a choice of perception, I then have a greater opportunity to regulate myself, to make the behavior that the child is exhibiting not about me.
We call it the Q-tip method.
Quit taking it personally.
It's not about me.
It's their call for help.
And how can I be of assistance?
As opposed to how can I control, manage, or make that child do something?
The question in fear is how can I make you blank?
The question from love is how can I help you be successful at getting in the car?
How can I help you be successful with lights and noise and big sounds?
Whatever it seems to be throwing you over the edge or someone saying to you, no.
I'm going to go with the adult.
Okay, I'm talking from the adult because if we learn how to do this, then it's like, well, I can actually teach my child this.
And teach meaning you have to be creative in that with children with different wiring.
You have to really be creative in your teaching.
But let's start with the adult.
So in the lower centers of your brain, we have, I'm just doing a little brain lesson.
We have what's the autonomic nervous system.
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