Dr. Caroline Fleck
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to be heard or seen or that we're gonna like do some type of reinforce their behavior in some way by doing that like this bad behavior that we don't like that is where we um actually end up contributing to the cycle um yeah it also reminds me of the uh
to be heard or seen or that we're gonna like do some type of reinforce their behavior in some way by doing that like this bad behavior that we don't like that is where we um actually end up contributing to the cycle um yeah it also reminds me of the uh
to be heard or seen or that we're gonna like do some type of reinforce their behavior in some way by doing that like this bad behavior that we don't like that is where we um actually end up contributing to the cycle um yeah it also reminds me of the uh
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And the Menendez brothers most recently. Oh, I saw that one. Yeah.
And the Menendez brothers most recently. Oh, I saw that one. Yeah.
And the Menendez brothers most recently. Oh, I saw that one. Yeah.
Oh, no, but as someone who works directly with, you know, not those specific people, but folks who are, you know, have serious behavioral and emotional problems. No, I see exactly what you're saying. Like, I think they dramatize that backstory, but it is very much there and real. You asked about, you know, what are the effects of validation and or invalidation?
Oh, no, but as someone who works directly with, you know, not those specific people, but folks who are, you know, have serious behavioral and emotional problems. No, I see exactly what you're saying. Like, I think they dramatize that backstory, but it is very much there and real. You asked about, you know, what are the effects of validation and or invalidation?
Oh, no, but as someone who works directly with, you know, not those specific people, but folks who are, you know, have serious behavioral and emotional problems. No, I see exactly what you're saying. Like, I think they dramatize that backstory, but it is very much there and real. You asked about, you know, what are the effects of validation and or invalidation?
We as a society have really failed to reckon with, to acknowledge, to even label what invalidation is and how it affects people, okay? So invalidation is anything that basically dismisses, punishes, or denies another person's reality, be it their emotions, be it their thoughts, be it their behavior, okay?
We as a society have really failed to reckon with, to acknowledge, to even label what invalidation is and how it affects people, okay? So invalidation is anything that basically dismisses, punishes, or denies another person's reality, be it their emotions, be it their thoughts, be it their behavior, okay?
We as a society have really failed to reckon with, to acknowledge, to even label what invalidation is and how it affects people, okay? So invalidation is anything that basically dismisses, punishes, or denies another person's reality, be it their emotions, be it their thoughts, be it their behavior, okay?
Invalidation is directly linked to some of the most common and also severe forms of psychological disorders, all right, from BPD to major depression to PTSD to narcissism to even psychopathy, okay? So this is not like, does it play a role? No, we know it is a key ingredient. Yes, there are biological predispositions and everything else.
Invalidation is directly linked to some of the most common and also severe forms of psychological disorders, all right, from BPD to major depression to PTSD to narcissism to even psychopathy, okay? So this is not like, does it play a role? No, we know it is a key ingredient. Yes, there are biological predispositions and everything else.
Invalidation is directly linked to some of the most common and also severe forms of psychological disorders, all right, from BPD to major depression to PTSD to narcissism to even psychopathy, okay? So this is not like, does it play a role? No, we know it is a key ingredient. Yes, there are biological predispositions and everything else.
But once you add invalidation into that mix, it's like a cowder peg explosion. Yeah, it's just boom. And we don't appreciate that, I think. And therefore, it's harder for us to validate people in those situations.
But once you add invalidation into that mix, it's like a cowder peg explosion. Yeah, it's just boom. And we don't appreciate that, I think. And therefore, it's harder for us to validate people in those situations.