Dr. Dan Peters

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664 appearances 2 recordings 1 series first heard Jul 2018 last heard Mar 2020

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And the bottom line is you're not doing that stuff because you're afraid you can't do it great because you don't understand it.

So you're avoiding it.

So I actually don't care about your grade.

What I care about is that how you can do the assignments.

And honestly, if you don't even do them well, I don't care because that would be you taking on perfectionism even greater.

And I'm happy to help you with the first one, but we're doing this.

And I took a chance with that because she is strong and she is fiery and it wasn't pretty, but we did one.

And then by the time I got to number two, I said for the next night, because she had this plan, I said, would you like to help?

She's like, I got it.

I could do it by myself.

Thank you.

And it was, she was able to do it.

But again, it was this, especially with our perfectionistic kids, it's like, what are we focusing on?

And how do we talk about stuff outside of the grade?

Because often the grade is the evaluative thing.

That is the discourse about what everyone's doing.

Exactly.

But none of these are easy, right?

When our kids are like pre-adolescent, adolescent, young adult, it is so nuanced.

And it's how do we be our authentic self?

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