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Dr. Ellen Langer

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
2152 total appearances

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The School of Greatness
How to Rewire Your Mind and Heal Stress from the Inside Out with Dr. Ellen Langer

So I go and I buy as many stockings as they had, because these were expensive, right?

The School of Greatness
How to Rewire Your Mind and Heal Stress from the Inside Out with Dr. Ellen Langer

Now they were like half price.

The School of Greatness
How to Rewire Your Mind and Heal Stress from the Inside Out with Dr. Ellen Langer

a week after i got home pantyhose had come out now this is probably for a man i don't know so the stockings were no longer useful oh man now um i'm skiing and i finally decide okay what i'm going to do is invest in ski boots that are comfortable that are warm

The School of Greatness
How to Rewire Your Mind and Heal Stress from the Inside Out with Dr. Ellen Langer

I do that and then I end up spending winters in Mexico, so I never go skiing again.

The School of Greatness
How to Rewire Your Mind and Heal Stress from the Inside Out with Dr. Ellen Langer

You don't know.

The School of Greatness
How to Rewire Your Mind and Heal Stress from the Inside Out with Dr. Ellen Langer

You can't predict.

The School of Greatness
How to Rewire Your Mind and Heal Stress from the Inside Out with Dr. Ellen Langer

You really can't predict.

The School of Greatness
How to Rewire Your Mind and Heal Stress from the Inside Out with Dr. Ellen Langer

You think you can, but you can't.

The School of Greatness
How to Rewire Your Mind and Heal Stress from the Inside Out with Dr. Ellen Langer

If you can't predict, making decisions makes no sense.

The School of Greatness
How to Rewire Your Mind and Heal Stress from the Inside Out with Dr. Ellen Langer

If the way you make a decision is to do a cost-benefit analysis, if the costs and benefits are only limited by the way you think about things, that's not going to get you anywhere.

The School of Greatness
How to Rewire Your Mind and Heal Stress from the Inside Out with Dr. Ellen Langer

So the point is, rather than try to make the right decision, which you can never make.

The School of Greatness
How to Rewire Your Mind and Heal Stress from the Inside Out with Dr. Ellen Langer

Let me, one more little piece.

The School of Greatness
How to Rewire Your Mind and Heal Stress from the Inside Out with Dr. Ellen Langer

Do you want A or B?

The School of Greatness
How to Rewire Your Mind and Heal Stress from the Inside Out with Dr. Ellen Langer

They're psychologically the same.

The School of Greatness
How to Rewire Your Mind and Heal Stress from the Inside Out with Dr. Ellen Langer

Whenever you can't make a decision, it's because the alternatives are psychologically the same.

The School of Greatness
How to Rewire Your Mind and Heal Stress from the Inside Out with Dr. Ellen Langer

Then you pull in information to make them different.

The School of Greatness
How to Rewire Your Mind and Heal Stress from the Inside Out with Dr. Ellen Langer

So let's say you find out A is $100 and B is $1,000.

The School of Greatness
How to Rewire Your Mind and Heal Stress from the Inside Out with Dr. Ellen Langer

There's no decision.

The School of Greatness
How to Rewire Your Mind and Heal Stress from the Inside Out with Dr. Ellen Langer

right?

The School of Greatness
How to Rewire Your Mind and Heal Stress from the Inside Out with Dr. Ellen Langer

It follows mechanically.