Dr. Emily Morse
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first heard Nov 2024
last heard 17 Feb
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They're going to have an orgasm through like fingers, a mouth, a toy, words, energy, like so many other ways. And so first figuring out what is actually getting you the most turned on, aroused, and connected. And so really it's about figuring that out for yourself.
It could be through some solo work or having a partner that's really open to collaborating with you and finding out what is gonna allow you to orgasm. But sometimes again, when our goal is based on sensuality and connection, you might find that the orgasm happens Because you're releasing this notion that it should come out in a certain way.
But I think, again, it's really about just exploring your own body, being with a partner who's open to figuring that out with you, why it's going to happen, how it's going to happen, and what you require for orgasm. A lot of us just are expecting, again, that was kind of the start of my work was when I realized that I was tired of faking orgasms. You know, this was like 25 years ago.
I was like, this doesn't seem right. That my partner is always finishing. They're always having an orgasm and I am all about equality for women in all areas. Why is this the case? I don't, this doesn't seem right. And so I decided that wasn't going to happen again. I did everything I could. I really figured out my path to orgasm and that is available to every single woman.
And if you haven't had an orgasm with your partner, it's not because you can't, you're not broken, there's nothing wrong with you. It just because, you know, now, now you get to explore and find your path to pleasure.
If I used to get your off and rebrand everything, I would.
Yeah. I mean, it's actually like if you think about it. We need to be warmed up. If you're defining sex in a certain way, like genitals touching, rubbing against each other, you know, then we require it. But even just in general, foreplay can be anything. It could be a kiss, a glance, you know, sending your partner a sexy text. It can be just touch, massage. I'm such a fan of massage as foreplay.
I mean, I can't tell you how many times you might think you don't want sex and then you get like a foot massage for 15 minutes.
One of the best things I ever did was buy a massage table.
Me too. Same. Yes. I'm telling you, it is worth your investment. You can buy them on the second, whatever, buy a massage table. It doesn't Amazon. Yep. Because first off, I love that you do this. It's like, okay, because also think about it. You, we talked about libido is waning. We're busy life.
You're exhausted, but here you are expected to perform and receive and have orgasms, do all these things. What if one night it's just about you are receiving and, And then next time your partner's receiving and then you're giving.
And there's just something about that active massage and touch where you can breathe together and really receive and use your favorite body oil, use a massage candle, like make that the practice. I mean, that to me is the ultimate foreplay.
That was like our favorite way. Like, yeah, I probably be like, okay, well, hi, my name is Joe. You know, we have so much fun with it every time and it's okay to laugh. It's okay to joke. And you would say in full character, but it was like always the best massage I ever had.
So let's like normalize that.
I love it. That is a great prank.
Yeah. Wow. This is it, right? This is the conundrum. I mean... Well, first, I always ask to have couples like, usually they had it in the beginning, I hope. If you've had it, that's a great start. Usually a lot of other stuff has gotten in the way and you can build her up. But yes, you absolutely, it just means that you've gotten really comfortable.
You're connected all these other ways, maybe emotionally and spiritually. But it just means that, again, it's time to get really curious about your connection. What could you guys explore together that you're both into? I have this like yes, no, maybe list on my website. It is the most, it's probably been downloaded about a million times. It's a free guide at sexwithemily.com.
It has about a hundred sex acts on it. And it's just, I have a lot of different tools like these that just help people have the conversations or get curious. It has like a hundred different sex acts, like and you each take it separately. So kissing, is it a yes, no, or maybe? You know, dirty talk, yes, no, maybe. Toys, yes, no, maybe.
And then you come together and I can't tell you how many couples are like, I had no idea my partner wanted to be spanked and I want to spank. It's just a great place to think like, Where have we not explored? Like what rock have we not turned over yet? Where are we stuck in patterns? You know, taking ourselves out of our conditioning of what we expect sex to be.
And another thing is to, for these couples, is to give yourselves permission to take sex, if you define it as penetration or orgasm, off the table. And then for a week or a month, say, we're just going to start to explore again. And today's just going to be about kissing. And the next week, we're going to be about exploring each other's hands or bodies or torso.
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