Dr. Emily Morse
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Yeah. Wow. This is it, right? This is the conundrum. I mean... Well, first, I always ask to have couples like, usually they had it in the beginning, I hope. If you've had it, that's a great start. Usually a lot of other stuff has gotten in the way and you can build her up. But yes, you absolutely, it just means that you've gotten really comfortable.
You're connected all these other ways, maybe emotionally and spiritually. But it just means that, again, it's time to get really curious about your connection. What could you guys explore together that you're both into? I have this like yes, no, maybe list on my website. It is the most, it's probably been downloaded about a million times. It's a free guide at sexwithemily.com.
You're connected all these other ways, maybe emotionally and spiritually. But it just means that, again, it's time to get really curious about your connection. What could you guys explore together that you're both into? I have this like yes, no, maybe list on my website. It is the most, it's probably been downloaded about a million times. It's a free guide at sexwithemily.com.
You're connected all these other ways, maybe emotionally and spiritually. But it just means that, again, it's time to get really curious about your connection. What could you guys explore together that you're both into? I have this like yes, no, maybe list on my website. It is the most, it's probably been downloaded about a million times. It's a free guide at sexwithemily.com.
It has about a hundred sex acts on it. And it's just, I have a lot of different tools like these that just help people have the conversations or get curious. It has like a hundred different sex acts, like and you each take it separately. So kissing, is it a yes, no, or maybe? You know, dirty talk, yes, no, maybe. Toys, yes, no, maybe.
It has about a hundred sex acts on it. And it's just, I have a lot of different tools like these that just help people have the conversations or get curious. It has like a hundred different sex acts, like and you each take it separately. So kissing, is it a yes, no, or maybe? You know, dirty talk, yes, no, maybe. Toys, yes, no, maybe.
It has about a hundred sex acts on it. And it's just, I have a lot of different tools like these that just help people have the conversations or get curious. It has like a hundred different sex acts, like and you each take it separately. So kissing, is it a yes, no, or maybe? You know, dirty talk, yes, no, maybe. Toys, yes, no, maybe.
And then you come together and I can't tell you how many couples are like, I had no idea my partner wanted to be spanked and I want to spank. It's just a great place to think like, Where have we not explored? Like what rock have we not turned over yet? Where are we stuck in patterns? You know, taking ourselves out of our conditioning of what we expect sex to be.
And then you come together and I can't tell you how many couples are like, I had no idea my partner wanted to be spanked and I want to spank. It's just a great place to think like, Where have we not explored? Like what rock have we not turned over yet? Where are we stuck in patterns? You know, taking ourselves out of our conditioning of what we expect sex to be.
And then you come together and I can't tell you how many couples are like, I had no idea my partner wanted to be spanked and I want to spank. It's just a great place to think like, Where have we not explored? Like what rock have we not turned over yet? Where are we stuck in patterns? You know, taking ourselves out of our conditioning of what we expect sex to be.
And another thing is to, for these couples, is to give yourselves permission to take sex, if you define it as penetration or orgasm, off the table. And then for a week or a month, say, we're just going to start to explore again. And today's just going to be about kissing. And the next week, we're going to be about exploring each other's hands or bodies or torso.
And another thing is to, for these couples, is to give yourselves permission to take sex, if you define it as penetration or orgasm, off the table. And then for a week or a month, say, we're just going to start to explore again. And today's just going to be about kissing. And the next week, we're going to be about exploring each other's hands or bodies or torso.
And another thing is to, for these couples, is to give yourselves permission to take sex, if you define it as penetration or orgasm, off the table. And then for a week or a month, say, we're just going to start to explore again. And today's just going to be about kissing. And the next week, we're going to be about exploring each other's hands or bodies or torso.
And we are just going to learn to find different ways to please each other and open up different receptors. And just, I mean, there's so much to explore. So I would say that... Again, the way it just couples can can get it back if they're both willing. Now, if there's one partner and here's you probably have found this as a couples therapist. And it's really, really in all the work you've done.
And we are just going to learn to find different ways to please each other and open up different receptors. And just, I mean, there's so much to explore. So I would say that... Again, the way it just couples can can get it back if they're both willing. Now, if there's one partner and here's you probably have found this as a couples therapist. And it's really, really in all the work you've done.
And we are just going to learn to find different ways to please each other and open up different receptors. And just, I mean, there's so much to explore. So I would say that... Again, the way it just couples can can get it back if they're both willing. Now, if there's one partner and here's you probably have found this as a couples therapist. And it's really, really in all the work you've done.
It's so challenging. And I found this a lot. Oftentimes there's one in the relationship who is pushing that sex boulder up the hill. They're like, let's have the conversations. Let's mix it up. Let's talk about it. Let's go to therapy. And there might be one partner going back to cultural conditioning and sexual shame and they don't want to talk about it. They don't want to discuss it.
It's so challenging. And I found this a lot. Oftentimes there's one in the relationship who is pushing that sex boulder up the hill. They're like, let's have the conversations. Let's mix it up. Let's talk about it. Let's go to therapy. And there might be one partner going back to cultural conditioning and sexual shame and they don't want to talk about it. They don't want to discuss it.
It's so challenging. And I found this a lot. Oftentimes there's one in the relationship who is pushing that sex boulder up the hill. They're like, let's have the conversations. Let's mix it up. Let's talk about it. Let's go to therapy. And there might be one partner going back to cultural conditioning and sexual shame and they don't want to talk about it. They don't want to discuss it.
And they deeply believe that if they talk about sex and they have to work on it, then their relationship is over or it's broken or sex shouldn't be talked about. Again, I can't tell you how many people like still believe that sex should actually not, not only should that be talked about like on Instagram or anywhere, but it shouldn't even be talked about in a relationship. Right.