Dr. Emily Morse
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So for me, I realized that my sex was all performant, pretty not all. I mean, I love the making out and the kissing, but once it came to like penetration and usually the penetration came too fast and I was doing all the things. And once I started realizing like, Oh, I, I actually am deserving of pleasure. I can have pleasure. My experience was just learning my own body.
I mean, honestly, I spent so much time with like really like ramping up my masturbation practice and without shame and learning to touch my body, make the sounds, figure out what felt good to me. And for anyone who wants to kind of
overcome their performance is I would say you got to spend time alone and you have to like practice some like, you know, cultivating your eroticism and your sensuality and really making that pleasure date with yourself of exploring all the nerve endings on your body and what really feels good to you and like your inner elbow, the nape of your neck, like what are all the different ways you can experience pleasure?
practice making sounds, look at yourself in the mirror, really do these kind of exercises, like make this your practice, take the baths, do the things, put time into it. That is how we're gonna like grow our erotic energy and learn to accept ourselves. And learn to really like that's because then we gain more confidence. We're like, oh, I can have pleasure.
I just didn't know how to show a partner that I didn't know how to ask for it. And so once you do this work, you will no longer be able to fall into those performative spaces because you've actually taken the time to learn yourself. So. But it's a practice and it's probably the most important work we can do.
And for many people I hear about masturbation, you know, we can't even say the word a lot of times or, you know, you'll get, you know, whatever, it's part of the shadow bed and part of whatever and it's dirty and whatever. But it really is part of like taking your power back again, too, is like you might not have discovered all those places in your body where you can have pleasure.
And it's okay to masturbate if you're in a relationship. A lot of people say, oh, I don't need to have a partner now. And it's like, no, like it really is a part of self-care. People are going to masturbate in a relationship, out of a relationship, and even share it with your partner. Mutual masturbation is such a beautiful, sexy act where you're both actually masturbating.
you know, pleasing yourselves while your other partner's watching. So they're actually getting turned on because you're truly in your pleasure, but then they're also learning what you, how you touch yourself. So a great way is like, I've learned these things. Like, do you want to see what I do? Or let me show you how I please myself.
You know, I often get questions about what do you do if your partner's threatened by a vibrator? They don't want to use it. You bring it into the bedroom and show them like, I've got this really cool toy, let me show it on you first. So like, I'll take the vibrator and I'll like rub it on their their body. And I'll be like, that's not feel good. And like, they love it. They love the loop.
They love the vibe. They don't know it. Like, I think that there's a lot of guys that are thinking to themselves like you've got this like 16 foot vibrator. That's going to replace me. And it's going to, you know, and it's like, usually they're like little like pebble shaped toys that like really just stimulate our clitoris.
They can be shaped like a phallic object, but once you like show them and you experience it together, it becomes part of your play and you can show them how you please yourself. So I think that those are some ways to get over that performative part of it.
That is a problem. First of that, the mirror actually is the most powerful one. I too had to do that in school and grad school. We had to look at it and we had to write, we had to draw it. We had like all these crafts. You had to like write, yeah, write a letter to it. All of that is like so, so important. I think that's a great practice.
I think practicing like your sound, like humming, moaning, making noises. learning to fully express your sexuality, maybe reading erotically. If you just feel, some people are just so shut down from things. So like finding your sources of spark, like what actually is turning you on? Can you think about moments, erotic moments?
Like I love like ethical porn, which is porn that's made like usually by women for women. You're seeing like real bodies, like performers are paid well. There, you know, there's more plots, like just finding stuff that is really like
stoking your sensuality and eroticism is is another really like helpful way to find what really what your turn-ons really are and again it's never too late to start I mean I would say that I hear from women all ages 60s 70s 40s 20s never had an orgasm never expressed herself so again it's because of the way our society's been set up so just you know get curious and and and
Start exploring and looking for sensual inspiration.
I wish that women knew that their sexual power... was in their hands, that they were responsible for their own power and their own pleasure. And it's not based on anyone else. And I would also say that it's infinite and it's expansive and it's ever changing. It's waiting for you.
You can find me everywhere at Sex With Emily. So it's, my website is sexwithemily.com. All social media, Sex With Emily.
Join my membership, Smart SX. It's an app where we can connect once a month. I do live workshops. And yeah, I have a store if you want to go shopping. I've like curated it to be like my favorite sex accessories. Ooh, fun. All of it is Sex With Emily. Amazing.
That's wherever you listen to podcasts. Yeah.
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