Dr. Emily Morse
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And even my last partner, I was like, babe, Monday night's 10 o'clock. Like it's never, if it's after 10 o'clock, it's probably not going to happen on most nights of the week. I want to get in bed at nine. Like, let's find the times that it does work.
And even my last partner, I was like, babe, Monday night's 10 o'clock. Like it's never, if it's after 10 o'clock, it's probably not going to happen on most nights of the week. I want to get in bed at nine. Like, let's find the times that it does work.
And even my last partner, I was like, babe, Monday night's 10 o'clock. Like it's never, if it's after 10 o'clock, it's probably not going to happen on most nights of the week. I want to get in bed at nine. Like, let's find the times that it does work.
So the first thing is normalizing desire and understanding that you, so we might respond to, again, conversations, date night connections, certain things with our partners. The other thing is knowing that like you can schedule sex. People think that is the least sexy thing ever. Like you don't want to look at your calendar and be like, pick up the kids, go to, you know, go to work, have sex.
So the first thing is normalizing desire and understanding that you, so we might respond to, again, conversations, date night connections, certain things with our partners. The other thing is knowing that like you can schedule sex. People think that is the least sexy thing ever. Like you don't want to look at your calendar and be like, pick up the kids, go to, you know, go to work, have sex.
So the first thing is normalizing desire and understanding that you, so we might respond to, again, conversations, date night connections, certain things with our partners. The other thing is knowing that like you can schedule sex. People think that is the least sexy thing ever. Like you don't want to look at your calendar and be like, pick up the kids, go to, you know, go to work, have sex.
But when we don't schedule it, it's a way of saying like sex is important to us. We're going to prioritize it. And this way, you know, okay. Saturday night is our sex night. And so I don't have to actually be thinking about it on Wednesday or Thursday or Friday, but when it's Saturday, then I have self-knowledge that I'm gonna be thinking about it.
But when we don't schedule it, it's a way of saying like sex is important to us. We're going to prioritize it. And this way, you know, okay. Saturday night is our sex night. And so I don't have to actually be thinking about it on Wednesday or Thursday or Friday, but when it's Saturday, then I have self-knowledge that I'm gonna be thinking about it.
But when we don't schedule it, it's a way of saying like sex is important to us. We're going to prioritize it. And this way, you know, okay. Saturday night is our sex night. And so I don't have to actually be thinking about it on Wednesday or Thursday or Friday, but when it's Saturday, then I have self-knowledge that I'm gonna be thinking about it.
So I'm gonna have that kind of like, sometimes when our brain gets on board for sex, our body's more likely to follow. So on these other times, maybe we're not on board, but if we know, like I have to respond to it. So I'm thinking about sex. I'm setting up the environment that's gonna be most conducive to me wanting to have sex. That's another way that couples can stoke it.
So I'm gonna have that kind of like, sometimes when our brain gets on board for sex, our body's more likely to follow. So on these other times, maybe we're not on board, but if we know, like I have to respond to it. So I'm thinking about sex. I'm setting up the environment that's gonna be most conducive to me wanting to have sex. That's another way that couples can stoke it.
So I'm gonna have that kind of like, sometimes when our brain gets on board for sex, our body's more likely to follow. So on these other times, maybe we're not on board, but if we know, like I have to respond to it. So I'm thinking about sex. I'm setting up the environment that's gonna be most conducive to me wanting to have sex. That's another way that couples can stoke it.
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curiosity and with spontaneity and with variety change and so what can we do that's different what is there a different position a different location is there again this is not the only solutions but like a new lubricant a toy a conversation and for so long again I talked earlier about the techniques that people like give me a quick technique and I'm not going to tell you like buy this vibrator your sex life is going to change however when we're talking about this one part of it
curiosity and with spontaneity and with variety change and so what can we do that's different what is there a different position a different location is there again this is not the only solutions but like a new lubricant a toy a conversation and for so long again I talked earlier about the techniques that people like give me a quick technique and I'm not going to tell you like buy this vibrator your sex life is going to change however when we're talking about this one part of it
curiosity and with spontaneity and with variety change and so what can we do that's different what is there a different position a different location is there again this is not the only solutions but like a new lubricant a toy a conversation and for so long again I talked earlier about the techniques that people like give me a quick technique and I'm not going to tell you like buy this vibrator your sex life is going to change however when we're talking about this one part of it
it might help you be more aroused. If there's something new, it could be anything like just, and even it could just be like a really sexy conversation about it.
it might help you be more aroused. If there's something new, it could be anything like just, and even it could just be like a really sexy conversation about it.