Dr. Harville Hendrix
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first heard Jul 2026
last heard 7 Jul
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It's one of nature's ways to getting you in a relationship to get the need met.
You see, you have to have the tension of the polarity of the difference in order to activate the undeveloped part of yourself.
So nature set this up, but it didn't give you a handbook when you got married.
I guess that's why therapists were created or why books are written about this.
Nature's trying to get it out.
I'm not an expert in your question, but I have thought about it, read about it, and have conclusions about it.
One of the things that if you look at arranged marriages, while they look stable and are stable and they last longer, they have compensatory sidebar behaviors.
The king had mistresses.
The queen had mistresses.
In other words, this dynamic of romantic love...
being attracted to somebody has been around forever.
Found outside the relationship.
It's like Romeo and Juliet.
You know, they found love outside and it was forbidden love.
The natural dynamic that finally got culturized and culturated didn't come until about 150 years ago.
But prior to that, nature dealt with the same thing.
It just didn't have a cultural container for it.
So it had to happen outside of culture.
Yeah, that's right.
Yeah, I would agree with that.
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