Dr Jeni Haynes
π€ SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
Explain the unknown child.
Okay.
So I lived in terror that my father would find and marry a woman that had a child.
You see, my father doesn't do this random go out and grab a kid.
He likes to have complete and utter control over you.
He did that with me.
So it's control.
So we lived in terror of him finding nice Russian girl with baby.
or a Thai lady with baby.
And we refer to this as the unknown child.
Right.
For access.
Yeah.
Because once he's got them in the house, they're never escaping.
The only escape out of that house...
would have been unaliving myself.
I believe that's the current acceptable term.
And my father kept telling me that, you know, when are you going to do the decent thing and unalive yourself?
Really?
I had that for three years.