Dr. Jenna Flowers
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197 appearances
1 recordings
1 series
first heard Dec 2016
last heard Dec 2016
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I think is really helpful.
So it might sound like, you know, what the Gottmans call a softened startup.
You know, when our son didn't get picked up from school on time and I thought that we had agreed that you were gonna pick him up on time.
That made me feel confused, frustrated.
And I you know, I want to be able to re to rely on you.
And so when that doesn't happen, that makes me feel scared that I can't.
So authentically sharing like that sounds vastly different than
What's wrong with you that you didn't pick up our kid on time?
How do you think he feels now?
God, he felt so abandoned, right?
That's gonna put put the co parent on the complete defensive.
So owning your own feelings I think is really key and how you share it is uh just as important as what you're sharing.
when it comes to people that are, you know, are ending their relationships or divorcing
It's okay.
You know, if you if you chose that you didn't that you can no longer be together
The world gets it.
It's okay.
But your your child is going to have a hard time understanding why that is so.
And your child will have an even harder time understanding it if you're so preoccupied and and why you're angry that it's no longer working out in that marriage that they're feeling forgotten.
So you wanna make sure that
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