Dr. John Deloney
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If he stops spending one penny and you took full control, theoretically, mathematically, yes, it'll burn your marriage to the ground.
I think this is a situation, Madison, where you set your husband, y'all sit down for dinner, you sit down for breakfast somewhere, you sit down for lunch somewhere, not when you're fighting about money, not when it's time to do a budget, and you say, I am scared to death. People give me a hard time on the internets about saying this line I'm about to say, but I think it applies here.
I think this is a situation, Madison, where you set your husband, y'all sit down for dinner, you sit down for breakfast somewhere, you sit down for lunch somewhere, not when you're fighting about money, not when it's time to do a budget, and you say, I am scared to death. People give me a hard time on the internets about saying this line I'm about to say, but I think it applies here.
I think this is a situation, Madison, where you set your husband, y'all sit down for dinner, you sit down for breakfast somewhere, you sit down for lunch somewhere, not when you're fighting about money, not when it's time to do a budget, and you say, I am scared to death. People give me a hard time on the internets about saying this line I'm about to say, but I think it applies here.
Husband, I can't breathe. I don't feel safe in this house when it comes to our money, and I can't keep carrying all this by myself. Will you look at this with me? And if he looks at you and says, nope, don't care, then Madison, you got bigger issues in your marriage because it's not about money. It's about your husband saying, I don't care how safe you feel or not. It's on you.
Husband, I can't breathe. I don't feel safe in this house when it comes to our money, and I can't keep carrying all this by myself. Will you look at this with me? And if he looks at you and says, nope, don't care, then Madison, you got bigger issues in your marriage because it's not about money. It's about your husband saying, I don't care how safe you feel or not. It's on you.
Husband, I can't breathe. I don't feel safe in this house when it comes to our money, and I can't keep carrying all this by myself. Will you look at this with me? And if he looks at you and says, nope, don't care, then Madison, you got bigger issues in your marriage because it's not about money. It's about your husband saying, I don't care how safe you feel or not. It's on you.
No, you didn't. Did you roll negative equity into it?
No, you didn't. Did you roll negative equity into it?
No, you didn't. Did you roll negative equity into it?
Bro, you did not need a stinger. A reliable would have been a $10,000 camera. You bought a stinger, dude.
Bro, you did not need a stinger. A reliable would have been a $10,000 camera. You bought a stinger, dude.
Bro, you did not need a stinger. A reliable would have been a $10,000 camera. You bought a stinger, dude.
We're just having fun with you.
We're just having fun with you.
We're just having fun with you.
So how can we help?
So how can we help?
So how can we help?
So the first of every month you open your eyes and you're already $3,200 down.