Dr. John Deloney
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It's not about that at all.
That ship has sailed.
We're solving for safety.
We're not solving for feelings right now.
We're solving for safety.
And be forewarned, anytime you put up a boundary like this, and by the way, this sounds like a boundary to reestablish connection down the road.
That's right.
And to keep you safe.
So it's not like you're like an immature 26-year-old, like, I'm cutting off my parents because they gave me a curfew when I was a teenager.
You're not doing that.
We're all back in.
Expect him to run full force into this boundary with everything he's got to see if it will hold.
And if you give him, I expect this much money for rent, I expect this much money for bills, and he stops paying you, you're going to be forced to say, okay, what next?
Am I going to hold the line here?
Is he going to have to move out?
You go ahead and set that stuff up in your mind because he's going to test these boundaries and see if they hold.
Are you renting out the other side?