Dr. John Deloney
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All right, today's question comes from Justin in Virginia. Justin writes, how can I stop being jealous of how much my siblings and in-laws earn? My wife and I have no debt and a really good household income. We're happy in our careers. We're not missing out on anything due to how much we earn. I just can't figure out how to not be so triggered and frustrated by other people's income.
All right, today's question comes from Justin in Virginia. Justin writes, how can I stop being jealous of how much my siblings and in-laws earn? My wife and I have no debt and a really good household income. We're happy in our careers. We're not missing out on anything due to how much we earn. I just can't figure out how to not be so triggered and frustrated by other people's income.
It's a very self-aware question.
It's a very self-aware question.
It's a very self-aware question.
What do you think, Rachel?
What do you think, Rachel?
What do you think, Rachel?
Yeah, I have found that. i always want to pull the string that's attached to that story and somewhere in justin's heart and mind the dollar amount that you earn every year is attached to value how much you're worth yep yep and somebody told you that somewhere and i found it helpful to get to the like where did that story come from oh dad used to tell older brother
Yeah, I have found that. i always want to pull the string that's attached to that story and somewhere in justin's heart and mind the dollar amount that you earn every year is attached to value how much you're worth yep yep and somebody told you that somewhere and i found it helpful to get to the like where did that story come from oh dad used to tell older brother
Yeah, I have found that. i always want to pull the string that's attached to that story and somewhere in justin's heart and mind the dollar amount that you earn every year is attached to value how much you're worth yep yep and somebody told you that somewhere and i found it helpful to get to the like where did that story come from oh dad used to tell older brother
how great he was because he made $6 an hour. I only made $5, like whatever that story is. Um, but the other thing is, I think you're right. I think Justin would be pretty cool to out of the blue, right? Your siblings, a letter and just say, I see, you know, I'm so proud of you. I see how hard you're working and I see what an amazing.
how great he was because he made $6 an hour. I only made $5, like whatever that story is. Um, but the other thing is, I think you're right. I think Justin would be pretty cool to out of the blue, right? Your siblings, a letter and just say, I see, you know, I'm so proud of you. I see how hard you're working and I see what an amazing.
how great he was because he made $6 an hour. I only made $5, like whatever that story is. Um, but the other thing is, I think you're right. I think Justin would be pretty cool to out of the blue, right? Your siblings, a letter and just say, I see, you know, I'm so proud of you. I see how hard you're working and I see what an amazing.
And instead of when you feel that jealousy, our tendency is to pull away instead of go towards that person to celebrate them. And I, Our bodies have a way of adjusting for that proximity. Like we're in support and it just over time realizes we're not in competition. I don't have to fight you. I have a great life. One other quick thing.
And instead of when you feel that jealousy, our tendency is to pull away instead of go towards that person to celebrate them. And I, Our bodies have a way of adjusting for that proximity. Like we're in support and it just over time realizes we're not in competition. I don't have to fight you. I have a great life. One other quick thing.
And instead of when you feel that jealousy, our tendency is to pull away instead of go towards that person to celebrate them. And I, Our bodies have a way of adjusting for that proximity. Like we're in support and it just over time realizes we're not in competition. I don't have to fight you. I have a great life. One other quick thing.
Often when you are creating a life, I'll say it like this, that is less alive. When you are in a, we go to work, we make this much money, we have this couch, we have this house, we have this car, we were supposed to be happy here. It's easy to put your eyes up and start looking for what other people have that you don't.
Often when you are creating a life, I'll say it like this, that is less alive. When you are in a, we go to work, we make this much money, we have this couch, we have this house, we have this car, we were supposed to be happy here. It's easy to put your eyes up and start looking for what other people have that you don't.
Often when you are creating a life, I'll say it like this, that is less alive. When you are in a, we go to work, we make this much money, we have this couch, we have this house, we have this car, we were supposed to be happy here. It's easy to put your eyes up and start looking for what other people have that you don't.