Dr. John Delony
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But in a weird way, that gives them the single most stable thing in the world, which is a mom and dad, they're on the same team.
But you're gonna have to weather a storm.
If you've got a seven-year-old and a five-year-old and they've never done that, they're gonna push on it and see if it will hold.
But all of this, don't do this piecemeal though.
Don't be like, hey, when you get home, we're going to start this new thing.
Because it will last about four days.
Okay?
And you can leave the dishes on the sink.
He can leave the dishes on the sink.
They can be trashed.
It's not taken out yet.
But as a part of who do we want to be in this new marriage and this new season?
Every day you walk in the door or I walk in the door, I want to, everything goes down and we go in our bedroom, we shut the door.
We might have the one-year-old with us, that's fine.
But I just want to hug for 30 seconds.
And I want you to put your hands on my face and just put your forehead on my forehead and tell me that you love me.
And sometimes 20 minutes of walking in the door and just being together and 20 more minutes of mad dash.
Are the water bottles filled?
Are the lunches for tomorrow made?
Is one thing in the laundry, in the washing machine, instead of doing five hours of laundry on the weekend, can we just throw one in?