Dr. John Delony

But they put it on the calendar.

And if they're starting boring married sex and it turns into wheels off, great.

But they know no candles, no special lighting, no exotic music.

We're just going to get in there because it always feels good.

We value connection.

We know our marriage is, we like each other more over time when we're having more sex.

And the situation with our lives right now, kids, jobs, whatever, is it's chaotic.

So we prioritize this so much

We're going to put it on the calendar, which Hollywood has said means your relationship is doomed.

It's over, et cetera.

Yeah.

But the most concerning thing you've told me is not that y'all have mismatched sexual appetites, that you'll have different types of desire.

Not that she's super, super, super into you two weeks into being married.

The biggest one thing that is making me like tilt my head a little bit.

And again, it's not a concern.

It's just, I want y'all to have this conversation earlier rather than later, which is I'm going, I am finding myself making myself responsible for her emotional wellbeing.

And I'm already starting to see the soil till up a little bit in resentment.

Because some nights I just want to, I'm so tired, I just want to go to bed.

And you get to do that.

That's okay.