Dr. John Delony

And I don't use this word lightly, but he's not well.

You're a few weeks in.

I'm a few weeks in.

What do you like?

What do you not like?

He's sick.

What are you into?

What do you want to try?

And he's untreated.

His illness is untreated, but he's not well.

And so you continuing to try to bang your head up against that situation is only going to give you a bruise, right?

And so we have to take care of ourselves when those around us aren't taking care of themselves.

Um,

And can I tell you, you're not broken and she's not either.

Your relationship's not doomed.

This is a normal part of joining lives with somebody.

I know couples who say, who have said like, if it's going to happen, it's got to start before nine.

And I know couples who have said, let's put it on the calendar so that I can think about it all day and make sure I'm not coming home with a head full of meetings and emails and whatever, because I want to be all in on you.

I know one couple right now that has sex on the calendar twice a week, and one is wheels off, and one is, they call it BMS, boring married sex.

Right?