Dr. John Delony

I'm out of here.

Right?

Hang on the line, I'm gonna hook you up with the Together app and I want you and your husband to log in and use it and it will learn you guys over time and it will give y'all one or two tasks a day, sometimes three tasks a day that y'all co-create together that will do a thing towards each other.

But I want y'all to go out this weekend if possible, maybe not because it's short notice, maybe next weekend, clear the deck,

and say, all right, we've never been married with three kids before.

Let's build a new marriage.

How do you want this house to feel when we both walk in?

What are the things we have to do?

We gotta pay bills.

We gotta make dinner.

We gotta get diapers out, blah, all that stuff.

Kids gotta get bathed.

What are the things we have to do?

How do we split this up?

And then what does connection look like?

And I'll say connection works best for everybody when somebody walks through the door and husband and or wife makes a beeline for their partner and we stop and the kids know.

It's grownup time, y'all get out.

Y'all get out, grownup time.

And they'll fight you on it, but man, their nervous systems will rest.

They'll rest.