Dr. John Delony

And going in the front end with a therapist and saying, I'm not leaving my husband and everyone tells me to leave him.

I'm not going to.

Period.

I want to learn how to grieve well.

And I want to learn how to be compassionate at the same time.

Because here's the thing.

I'm hearing from your voice that you don't believe him.

But it's not, though.

It's deeper than that.

You know what I'm saying?

Like you had this picture of what you thought your marriage was going to be and that picture's different.

Now you've heard my show, that happens all the time.

People who find out they're not going to have kids and they had a picture in their head of 10 kids and people who have lost and people who, like that happens all the time and it's painful and it's the worst and it happens to every married person in some shape, form or fashion.

They had a picture of what they thought things were going to look like and it's different.

But this is different than that.

Underneath it all,

If in your bones you don't believe him, then the rejection is an active, he is actively rejecting you.

I am choosing my whatever over your, like being with you.

Or if you dig all the way down and you realize, oh my gosh, I believe him.

Because he's amazing in every other way.