Dr. John Delony

How do we create that?

And I want to be striving, but right now I have three little humans that I co-created.

And so my striving is going to be for a good night's sleep for a season.

My striving is going to be for...

30 minutes of screens off we're playing dominoes we're talking about our day we're making out again like we used to we're sneaking away for a burger even though that's not healthy and whatever we're just gonna do it yeah that sounds pretty accurate tell me if I'm way out to lunch

Gotcha.

And then you become somebody you don't want to be.

And then you feel guilty about that.

So then it starts to cycle over.

I'm going to hold it.

I'm going to hold it.

I'm going to hold it.

I'm going to hold it.

And then he gets home and plops down on the couch and turns the game on and grabs his phone.

And then, and now we start over again.

And so there's something powerful about clearing the deck and saying, Hey, we have a brand new marriage and I love you forever.

How do we want this house to feel?

And this is where it gets scary and not everybody's in on this.

And I hate that for them, but they're not.

And that is, I have to see you, that you're a person.