Dr. Julie Smith
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And actually, that is the process of a relationship is building that together and going through those things and learning about each other in the process and forgiving each other for when you bring your worst to each other. And you just build so much strength through that. So I think there's this combination of what on earth is emotional about and how do I deal with it?
And actually, that is the process of a relationship is building that together and going through those things and learning about each other in the process and forgiving each other for when you bring your worst to each other. And you just build so much strength through that. So I think there's this combination of what on earth is emotional about and how do I deal with it?
But also then what do I do with that in a relationship? When the relationship shows me up to not be my perfect self and I'm not being my best self, What does that mean? So yeah, some sort of combination between those two, I think.
But also then what do I do with that in a relationship? When the relationship shows me up to not be my perfect self and I'm not being my best self, What does that mean? So yeah, some sort of combination between those two, I think.
But also then what do I do with that in a relationship? When the relationship shows me up to not be my perfect self and I'm not being my best self, What does that mean? So yeah, some sort of combination between those two, I think.
No relationship is perfect, but that doesn't mean you have to give up on it. I think the strongest relationships have often been through the most together, right? Because you feel safety when you've been through stuff together and it's pulled you together and not apart.
No relationship is perfect, but that doesn't mean you have to give up on it. I think the strongest relationships have often been through the most together, right? Because you feel safety when you've been through stuff together and it's pulled you together and not apart.
No relationship is perfect, but that doesn't mean you have to give up on it. I think the strongest relationships have often been through the most together, right? Because you feel safety when you've been through stuff together and it's pulled you together and not apart.
I think in this whole misconception that everything's got to be perfect, otherwise it's not the right person or it's not the right relationship.
I think in this whole misconception that everything's got to be perfect, otherwise it's not the right person or it's not the right relationship.
I think in this whole misconception that everything's got to be perfect, otherwise it's not the right person or it's not the right relationship.
Yeah in some ways I would ask why they're trying to get them to open up what's going on there because we can only change ourselves and we can only improve ourselves and again it's that focus on what am I bringing to the relationship because it's an okay way to be if you're not a talker and you don't really talk about emotions that much. that's okay. For some people, that works.
Yeah in some ways I would ask why they're trying to get them to open up what's going on there because we can only change ourselves and we can only improve ourselves and again it's that focus on what am I bringing to the relationship because it's an okay way to be if you're not a talker and you don't really talk about emotions that much. that's okay. For some people, that works.
Yeah in some ways I would ask why they're trying to get them to open up what's going on there because we can only change ourselves and we can only improve ourselves and again it's that focus on what am I bringing to the relationship because it's an okay way to be if you're not a talker and you don't really talk about emotions that much. that's okay. For some people, that works.
And we don't all have to be really insightful or psychologically minded or anything like that for stuff to work. And sometimes I think that's okay. I mean, like Matt and I, for example, I'm well into this. I'm a full-on psychology nerd, constantly reading about stuff. I'm a therapist, so always reflecting on things. And he's probably the opposite to me in that sense. But
And we don't all have to be really insightful or psychologically minded or anything like that for stuff to work. And sometimes I think that's okay. I mean, like Matt and I, for example, I'm well into this. I'm a full-on psychology nerd, constantly reading about stuff. I'm a therapist, so always reflecting on things. And he's probably the opposite to me in that sense. But
And we don't all have to be really insightful or psychologically minded or anything like that for stuff to work. And sometimes I think that's okay. I mean, like Matt and I, for example, I'm well into this. I'm a full-on psychology nerd, constantly reading about stuff. I'm a therapist, so always reflecting on things. And he's probably the opposite to me in that sense. But
That means we have different strengths and we even each other out. God, can you imagine how we'd talk for hours if we were both psychologists? Dreadful. We'd have no fun. Oh my God, it would be awful, right?
That means we have different strengths and we even each other out. God, can you imagine how we'd talk for hours if we were both psychologists? Dreadful. We'd have no fun. Oh my God, it would be awful, right?
That means we have different strengths and we even each other out. God, can you imagine how we'd talk for hours if we were both psychologists? Dreadful. We'd have no fun. Oh my God, it would be awful, right?