Dr. Lori Desautels

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322 appearances 1 recordings 1 series first heard Dec 2022 last heard Dec 2022

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I think kind of generational practices that we never questioned before.

When I look back on that, it's really a it's a wonderful time, it's a frustrating time, and for many adults.

We as parents or educators will resist change because what we've always done feels more familiar or comfortable to us.

And

We forget that discipline is from the word disciple, which is about following not my agenda, but following my child's.

And this is where we want to strengthen relationships through the conflict.

We have an opportunity when there is dysregulation from our children to really sit beside them and to share in their pain, to validate that hurt.

То валідай да дис із.

And that's something that I really did not do as a mom.

As well as I could have looking back, I am now.

And it works.

I think Sarah Decitel, my middle daughter.

Calms more quickly when I validate her feelings than any other technique I've ever integrated or used.

It absolutely can and I think the biggest

shift in this work when we think about rewiring our perceptions is the adult nervous system.

And I never thought about that.

In the ways that

How contagious emotions are.

And so when I am

My heart's beating fast.

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