Dr. Lori Desautels
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first heard Dec 2022
last heard Dec 2022
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And that behavior would eventually.
Fade away.
But oftentimes we don't see that we're back at it again.
We're addressing the same behaviors.
And so I think that is the difference between behavior management and behavior engagement.
Engagement is really, as I stated just a few minutes ago, following the child's agenda and it's meeting them where they are.
I just cannot emphasize that enough.
Doctor Bruce Perry has this wonderful quote and I probably won't
use it correctly, but he talks about specificity in the nervous system.
And he uses the analogy of playing the piano and he says you can't learn to play the piano by reading a book about it or listening or watching a YouTube video.
You have to put your fingers on the keys.
And I think about that with parenting and teaching.
In that I have to meet my children with breath.
or with movement if they're in survival.
Whether that's
taking a walk or we have some practices that we've created ahead of a crisis, whether it's grabbing a mint or a bottle of water or shooting basket.
or taking a warm shower, wrapping up in a blanket for a few minutes, giving each other time and space.
That's that specificity that Dr.
Perry talks about.
And it has such relevance and application for us.
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