Dr. Marisa G. Franco
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first heard Jul 2026
last heard 15 Jul
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And that's OK.
And so that's something for people that are artistic in particular.
But also there's strong correlations between like ADHD and rejection sensitive dysphoria.
Rejection sensitive dysphoria basically means that you tend to be very primed to see rejection and it hurts you a lot more than other people.
Maybe you have a physical reaction to rejection and that, again, can be based off of a deeper sensitivity, but can also be based on the realities of living in an environment where you are often rejections.
because your brain works differently and maybe you socialize sort of differently.
And so you can have more of those sort of memories of rejection and the memories can affect you more deeply.
I feel like my brain is growing while you're talking.
It's awesome.
How do attachment styles show up differently in platonic relationships than romantic ones?
Like, for example, could I have one type of attachment style with a romantic partner and a completely different one with friends?
You absolutely can, because when I laid out the attachment styles, I didn't want to be prescriptive in terms of like you're avoidant, so you're avoidant everywhere and it'll never change.
Because just like any personality trait, you might be a funny person who's more funny around some people than others.
There's, I think we call it trait and state-based.
Trait is like it's part of who you are.
State is, it depends on the circumstance, whether that trait will come out.
Attachment styles can often be a dynamic trait.
And so when you're around someone who's very avoidant and they never text you back and they're withdrawn and they never tell you that they like you and are very detached, you're going to start to feel a little bit anxious, even if you're typically secure.
And often how you feel, if you feel a different way than your typical baseline in a relationship, it might indicate something about the other person and what their attachment style is.
And if someone's really anxious, sometimes anxious people can threaten their autonomy because they need so much reassurance and proof of interest and proof of engagement that sometimes it's like, I can't hang out with my other friends without you getting upset.
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