Dr. Matt May

What would be a more appropriate way for someone in that age range?

What would be a more appropriate way for someone in that age range?

Yeah, I know.

Yeah, I know.

I think that's why the practice is important. Exactly. Yeah.

I think that's why the practice is important. Exactly. Yeah.

Matt. Yeah. Rhonda, you know, I, sorry to tell you this, but you're kind of Rhonda too, right? I'm Ron. I'm, uh, yes, I'm, I'm Rhonda. Uh, negative Rhonda.

Matt. Yeah. Rhonda, you know, I, sorry to tell you this, but you're kind of Rhonda too, right? I'm Ron. I'm, uh, yes, I'm, I'm Rhonda. Uh, negative Rhonda.

Sorry about that. I'm a mess today. I'm a mess. Yeah, Rhonda, I'm your negative thoughts. And I just wanted to let you know that you're not attractive enough for Danny. He's way out of your league and he's not interested in you because you're gawky and awkward.

Sorry about that. I'm a mess today. I'm a mess. Yeah, Rhonda, I'm your negative thoughts. And I just wanted to let you know that you're not attractive enough for Danny. He's way out of your league and he's not interested in you because you're gawky and awkward.

Oh, who's that?

Oh, who's that?

Was that a big win? I thought so. I thought so, too. I thought that was huge.

Was that a big win? I thought so. I thought so, too. I thought that was huge.

I love that little example of feared fantasy and how, David, you were able to throw in some stroking. Yeah. I think that's one of the features of the feared fantasy. If you're able to get that, work that into the response, I think it is kind of a win. Yeah.

I love that little example of feared fantasy and how, David, you were able to throw in some stroking. Yeah. I think that's one of the features of the feared fantasy. If you're able to get that, work that into the response, I think it is kind of a win. Yeah.

We could do Rhonda's. I could play, Rhonda, would you like to respond to your bully as if they were a real person, not your negative thought? So in the feared fantasy version.

We could do Rhonda's. I could play, Rhonda, would you like to respond to your bully as if they were a real person, not your negative thought? So in the feared fantasy version.

Yeah. So what if my name's like Lindsay or something like that? And hey, Rhonda, I saw you kind of making eyes and trying to flirt with Danny earlier. But I wanted to let you know that he's way out of your league. You're just not attractive enough. I'm way more popular and beautiful than you are. And you're just a little toad by comparison.

Yeah. So what if my name's like Lindsay or something like that? And hey, Rhonda, I saw you kind of making eyes and trying to flirt with Danny earlier. But I wanted to let you know that he's way out of your league. You're just not attractive enough. I'm way more popular and beautiful than you are. And you're just a little toad by comparison.