Dr. Matt Zakreski

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Right.

And that kind of future telling

only hurts us and it lowers our ability to help our kids.

Well the for inst a classic example, right, is if you put your kid in the car and drive them to school this morning and you get rear ended by a bus.

It's easy to say, Well, I shouldn't have driven my kid to school today.

Why?

Like ha like

Obviously if you had known you were gonna get hit by a bus, you wouldn't have driven that way.

But

Who what reasonable person would have made that that connection?

Right?

That's not that's not possible.

You know, I shouldn't have sent them to this school, I shouldn't have had them do scouts, I shouldn't have had them XYZ.

Should is a word that gives us shame and pain for the things we didn't do.

Right.

I would say could.

Could is a better word than should.

We could have sent our kids to another school.

We could have gotten mental health support sooner.

But when you s when you have the word should, you're beating yourself up for things that didn't happen for whatever reason.

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