Dr. Molly Burrets

It's wonderful that there's a renaissance and that we are finally, just for the first time, starting to get information about

from women to women.

So if it feels like it's burgeoning, it is.

And that's wonderful because we have been waiting so long to stop being in the dark about this.

So if it's not your struggle, I can really, with grace, understand how it seems like, oh my gosh, people are talking about this everywhere, shoving it down.

Well, people are talking about it because so many people need it.

And just thank your lucky stars that you don't.

Just hold that gratitude and keep it moving.

If it's not your pain, I don't think it's helpful to comment on other people's pain.

And I think it's really important that women be educated about their reproductive health across all domains, whether that's natural family planning or assisted reproductive technologies.

There's lots of ways to get pregnant.

And there's lots of ways to have babies.

And you can have babies without getting pregnant.

So I just want there to be room for all of it.

It's not a competition.

And I want us to be sensitive to the pain and struggle that people are going through because I can promise you this.

We are not going through all of this just because we don't have a positive mindset.

Thank you.

I didn't spend my life commuting to Tijuana, Mexico and shooting myself up with drugs and going through the heartbreak and pain of waiting loss and disappointment just because I wasn't thinking positive enough.

And hey, I'm a psychologist, so I understand, appreciate, and respect the value of a positive mindset.