Dr. Orna Guralnik

Were they like...

you know, the favorite, were they the favorite in the family?

I mean, it's usually there's something going on there that they believe.

Well, if you have something interesting, if you have some interesting feedback for your partner, then you talk about it.

You say, okay, this is not what I'm proposing here.

I'm not proposing that I will be the one deciding.

I'm just giving you some feedback here about the fact that your decision-making process doesn't convince me because you decide on one thing and then you regret it immediately after.

Let's talk about that.

The idea here is you try to expose what is the underlying thing that is discussed through the chicken and the steak.

But I, by the way, just so you know, after all these years of living and practicing, I don't really fully think there's a male versus female mindset.

Really?

Yeah, I think there are little superficial differences, but I think at the core, I don't really see a difference.

But there are plenty of men that pressure their girlfriends or wives to go to therapy.

Who are these losers?

Too early, too late.

Yeah, I actually agree with both of you.

I think there is a too early and there is a too late.

I think if you're starting a relationship and you're immediately like, let's get a therapist in, it's like, what's the insecurity?

I mean, you haven't even formed a relationship.

What is the therapist going to do?