Dr. Orna Guralnik

I mean, three months in, there's no relationship yet.

It's too early.

I agree.

It seems to me more a matter of insecurity than I mean, if you're at three months in, you're already having impossible arguments.

Right.

You can't work through that.

That's fair.

Yeah, once two years in, I mean, once there's a real pattern that's forming that you don't know how to get out of, that's when it would be a good idea to bring in someone else.

But you have to really have established a real pattern that you've tried to make your way out of.

Not everyone needs therapy.

When it's too late.

Sometimes it's too late when too much bitterness and misery has accumulated.

and people just become so hopeless and so entrenched, it can be too late.

Like the love can dry out, which is very sad.

I mean, like that's... Yeah, that's really sad.

Well,

May I protest that coming to Dr. Orna, any Dr. Orna, not just me, is not like the worst thing in the world.

I mean, people do not suffer terribly in couples therapy.

Some people actually like it and come out better on the other side.

Yeah, you get to talk about things that matter to you.