Dr Paul Eastwick
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first heard Feb 2026
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And it ends up growing more over time.
Now, the tricky thing about taste and timing is that it is remarkably hard to predict because you might think like, well, I can sort of make use of this whole compatibility component by, I don't know, like if I really want to be with somebody who's tall, for example, if I just like, you know, okay, let's line up the tall guys and I can, you know, I'm more likely to find somebody who's going to especially appeal to me.
And this is just another one of those challenges.
It doesn't quite work that way.
Like we know compatibility is important, but it's remarkably hard to predict.
And a lot of it comes through conversation, but it's often like the random like sidetracks that we get onto in conversations where two people find that, oh, like, whoa, we will, you know,
had the same elementary school teacher three years apart or something like that, right?
You find those little nuggets, those little moments of serendipity while you're talking with somebody else.
That's where a lot of the magic comes from, but it's just remarkably hard to predict that stuff.
Not exactly.
What is true is, as we've talked about, some people are better in the initial attraction realm.
And so what that means is that if you're somebody that's a 10, you're going to have more hookup opportunities.
You're going to have more sex partners over the course of your life.
You know, these sorts of short-term successes, you'll have more of those.
The issue is that, and this is, again, this is like, wait, what?
These guys, they actually aren't... And girls.
There's no real long-term cost to that.
In other words, the attributes that make somebody desirable in the short term, they're just irrelevant to a person's long-term desirability.
Attractiveness makes people... Not irrelevant.
No, truly.
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