Dr Paul Eastwick
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first heard Feb 2026
last heard 22 Jun
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OK, so that's one quick thing, which is that even when people meet for the first time.
OK, and this I'm getting from speed dating.
The power of consensus is about as strong, if anything, a little weaker than the power of compatibility.
So even if we're if we're meeting, OK, we're at least meeting face to face.
So things like speed dating, things like parties.
There's a lot of compatibility there.
And it's going to be way better than dating online.
So even if we're trapped in these modern urban environments where there are a lot of people around and a lot of competition, at least start by meeting people face-to-face rather than just the swiping.
I would just add that.
Yeah.
Yeah.
I think so.
And I think, you know, like we're talking about, I do think online dating exacerbates that inequality.
But I think that now if we're talking about like theory, what's the story of human mating?
The story, I mean, as I've understood it since the 90s, was really about like, well, you sort of do the best you can.
And, you know, maybe things go well for you and you improve your attributes.
And so you might be able to like trade up eventually.
And this is why people give advice.
Things like, well, if you're a six, you should really try to get with somebody else who's a six.
Because otherwise, like if you don't trade up on them, like they're going to trade up on you.
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