Dr. Robert Glover

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Being authentic doesn't do that.

Being authentic is just you being you.

And when talking about what's the opposite of a nice guy.

The way I look at it is that I think the nice guy and the asshole are actually on the same continuum.

I think both of them are living in what we'll call fight, flight, freeze nervous system.

They're both in sympathetic nervous system.

The nice guy is in flight, freeze, or fawn, trying to manage their anxiety and manage situations around them.

The asshole jerk is in fight mode.

So he actually just intimidates people to manage situations.

I think they're both in sympathetic nervous system.

So just guys will say to me, well, I know being a nice guy isn't right, but I don't think I want to be a jerk.

I need to find a happy medium.

And I go, I don't know what the tipping point is between two toxic extremes because they're both on the same continuum.

So what I teach is we actually have to rise up above, not just become more this way, right?

Become more like the asshole jerk.

We have to become more conscious.

We have to become more assertive.

We have to become more differentiated.

That's the ability to ask ourselves, what do we want?

What's important to me?

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