Dr. Robert Glover

Oh, good.

I'm on the right track.

But if you kind of lean back or scowl, I won't say that again.

Or I better explain what I meant by that.

And so, again, it's chameleon-like.

And he's not happy.

He's not getting his needs met.

He's going along to get along.

And the people around him...

Number one, nice guys aren't very attractive.

We think we're going to make women like us, but usually women are disinterested.

They may take advantage of us or walk on us, but they're not going to ever be real interested in us.

And if you do get close to them, you get that passive aggressiveness, the occasional blow up, the victim puke that I talk about in the book.

So, and nice guys tend to be underachievers.

You know, we're good at being good, but not great at being great.

So there's a whole, you know.

A lot of issues that go with it.

I have an online course I wrote 20 plus years ago called Nice Guys Don't Finish Last, They Rot in Middle Management.

So they're good at being good because they're conscientious.

But, you know, they don't want to rock the boat.