Dr. Robyn Silverman
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895 appearances
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first heard Jun 2017
last heard Dec 2021
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At that point we need to really highlight their strengths so that they can see, you know, that what those people may have said or reflected back to them isn't actually the truth.
And we don't want it to c you know, create the feedback loop of you're not good enough, then I'm not good enough.
And then it goes back and forth and keeps, you know, building up steam.
I and they hear it that much louder.
So we gotta break that up and help them to see who they really are.
So
Uh you when we're talking about core, we're talking about how do kids really see themselves.
And I core stands for comparison, observation, recognition, and expertise or efficacy.
So when we're talking about compare comparison, I do two questions.
How do I stack up versus what strengths do I bring to the table?
So we were talking about that, right?
wanna focus on what each person brings to the table.
you know, w in in whatever circumstance they're in, whether it's, you know, to build a group or creating a family, and use that instead of comparison.
So how like what strengths do I bring to the table?
Observation is about the questions of do the messages I glean demean me or support me?
So what messages are our kids getting at home, at school, in the community?
Self-esteem is really challenged when we're being told we're not good enough.
So we want to surround ourselves with the right people who support us, not demean us.
That's when I was talking about diversifying your friendship circles and really exposing your children to the right mentors.
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