Dr. Ross Greene
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first heard Oct 2017
last heard Oct 2017
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But the model has evolved since then to be primarily ninety-nine percent of the problem solving we ought to be doing is planned and proactive.
So while there is a place for
trying to solve a problem in the heat of the moment, it's actually not the best timing because we've added heat
and rush to the mix.
The option is there if you need it, but the whole goal is for people not to need it.
So we'd rather have people be in crisis prevention mode than crisis management mode.
But the bottom line is
It's a whole lot easier to solve a problem proactively than it is in the heat of the moment.
I would say that that's kinda real life.
Um there are solutions that stand the test of time forever, but I don't come across them too often.
Uh sometimes things change and um uh people's concerns change and we need different solutions that will address them as concerns evolve.
Kids change, kids develop, what we want from them changes and develops.
Um but I think that um generally speaking, if a solution doesn't work, it's usually either because it wasn't as realistic as we thought it was in the first place, and that's one of the two
important criteria for coming up with a good solution.
It's gotta be realistic.
The other criteria is that it has to be mutually satisfactory, meaning.
It truly addresses the concerns of both parties.
As I'm always saying, if a solution isn't realistic and mutually satisfactory, then this problem is not yet solved.
But it is not uncommon in real life as well as when you're solving problems collaboratively.
That a solution doesn't last for ever.
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