Dr. Sara Gottfried
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We're really good at co-regulation, kind of like what you do with a baby to calm a baby down when it's upset.
And so that's where we need to really shine is to regulate ourselves and co-regulate others.
Well, that's true for men.
That's why it's true for women.
Oh, really?
Now women need to be with their girlfriends.
Wow.
How do you regulate?
So you've learned how to regulate yourself.
You've found these healthy ways to do it.
And then you're also in a marriage.
There's accidents.
You spilled water on your laptop the other day.
Yeah, the repair.
It's all about the repair.
And I didn't learn repair as a kid.
I think when you have an A score, like I do have six, you have an A score of seven.
Did you get much repair from their parents?
We have to teach it to ourselves.
Well, women are really sensitive to tone.