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Dr. Shadé Zahrai

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On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Confidence Expert Dr. Shadé Zahrai: Feel Like You’re Not Enough? THIS Proven 4 Part Framework Will Transform Your Self-Image & Build REAL Confidence

We call it the spiral interrupt technique.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Confidence Expert Dr. Shadé Zahrai: Feel Like You’re Not Enough? THIS Proven 4 Part Framework Will Transform Your Self-Image & Build REAL Confidence

When this is happening, the part of the brain that's activated is the emotion center, the threat detection center.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Confidence Expert Dr. Shadé Zahrai: Feel Like You’re Not Enough? THIS Proven 4 Part Framework Will Transform Your Self-Image & Build REAL Confidence

It's trying to identify everything that could go wrong to keep you safe.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Confidence Expert Dr. Shadé Zahrai: Feel Like You’re Not Enough? THIS Proven 4 Part Framework Will Transform Your Self-Image & Build REAL Confidence

So what you can do is control your attention.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Confidence Expert Dr. Shadé Zahrai: Feel Like You’re Not Enough? THIS Proven 4 Part Framework Will Transform Your Self-Image & Build REAL Confidence

Bring your attention back to, what can I control right now?

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Confidence Expert Dr. Shadé Zahrai: Feel Like You’re Not Enough? THIS Proven 4 Part Framework Will Transform Your Self-Image & Build REAL Confidence

By literally saying to yourself, this is my brain doing what it does.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Confidence Expert Dr. Shadé Zahrai: Feel Like You’re Not Enough? THIS Proven 4 Part Framework Will Transform Your Self-Image & Build REAL Confidence

I am safe to act anyway.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Confidence Expert Dr. Shadé Zahrai: Feel Like You’re Not Enough? THIS Proven 4 Part Framework Will Transform Your Self-Image & Build REAL Confidence

So again, simply by doing that, by consciously controlling your thoughts, you are re-engaging those prefrontal regions, which reduces activity in the amygdala, in the fear centers, and allows you to have that moment of rationality to then decide what's next.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Confidence Expert Dr. Shadé Zahrai: Feel Like You’re Not Enough? THIS Proven 4 Part Framework Will Transform Your Self-Image & Build REAL Confidence

I love that you mentioned that one as well, this idea of caring.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Confidence Expert Dr. Shadé Zahrai: Feel Like You’re Not Enough? THIS Proven 4 Part Framework Will Transform Your Self-Image & Build REAL Confidence

Because when we acknowledge that our brain is just doing what it's wired to do, and then we can...

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Confidence Expert Dr. Shadé Zahrai: Feel Like You’re Not Enough? THIS Proven 4 Part Framework Will Transform Your Self-Image & Build REAL Confidence

We can essentially interpret what we're feeling in a way that's going to serve us.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Confidence Expert Dr. Shadé Zahrai: Feel Like You’re Not Enough? THIS Proven 4 Part Framework Will Transform Your Self-Image & Build REAL Confidence

And so we can either interpret that heart rate, as you said, as you get into the overthinking of the overthinking and then you're stressed about the stress.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Confidence Expert Dr. Shadé Zahrai: Feel Like You’re Not Enough? THIS Proven 4 Part Framework Will Transform Your Self-Image & Build REAL Confidence

It's called a meta emotion where it's like an emotion about an emotion and it just spirals out of control.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Confidence Expert Dr. Shadé Zahrai: Feel Like You’re Not Enough? THIS Proven 4 Part Framework Will Transform Your Self-Image & Build REAL Confidence

Or you can say, no, no, this is my brain is just doing its job.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Confidence Expert Dr. Shadé Zahrai: Feel Like You’re Not Enough? THIS Proven 4 Part Framework Will Transform Your Self-Image & Build REAL Confidence

I'm prepared.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Confidence Expert Dr. Shadé Zahrai: Feel Like You’re Not Enough? THIS Proven 4 Part Framework Will Transform Your Self-Image & Build REAL Confidence

I'm ready.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Confidence Expert Dr. Shadé Zahrai: Feel Like You’re Not Enough? THIS Proven 4 Part Framework Will Transform Your Self-Image & Build REAL Confidence

I'm going to be of service here.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Confidence Expert Dr. Shadé Zahrai: Feel Like You’re Not Enough? THIS Proven 4 Part Framework Will Transform Your Self-Image & Build REAL Confidence

I care.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Confidence Expert Dr. Shadé Zahrai: Feel Like You’re Not Enough? THIS Proven 4 Part Framework Will Transform Your Self-Image & Build REAL Confidence

I care about delivering a good outcome.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Confidence Expert Dr. Shadé Zahrai: Feel Like You’re Not Enough? THIS Proven 4 Part Framework Will Transform Your Self-Image & Build REAL Confidence

And it's powerful when you recognize that.