Dr Tony Bates
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first heard Jul 2026
last heard 12 Jul
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Why do we hide it?
I think...
I think we hide a lot of how we feel.
And I think actually one of the really difficulties about mental health problems or emotional suffering generally is that we feel very alone at the heart of it all.
You know, we're very alone and we are unable to break out of that aloneness.
And we think if people saw us in that space, they'd be very disappointed in what we are, that we're not stronger, that we're not cooler.
That were weak.
That were weak, yeah, that were fragile.
And I think our tears reveal really a truth about us that we'd prefer to keep hidden.
And, yeah, I think they reveal what we're missing in our life.
They reveal what we've lost, someone, something.
They reveal what we're...
you know, what we've been carrying for a long time and maybe need to let go.
So they do show us where we're at and they show other people where we're at.
Big boys don't cry, really.
I mean, unless they don't even go there, they never have any of those kind of things happen to them.
They're fine.
No, you know, it's so stupid, isn't it?
It's so silly that we think about the sexes in this way.
I suppose there's all kinds of historical reasons, but I mean, I have found it...
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