Dr. Viviana Coles

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310 appearances 2 recordings 2 series first heard Jun 2025 last heard 9 Apr

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Amy Robach & T.J. Holmes Present · Inside the Freak Offs · 3 Jun 2025 podcast

Well, look, let me tell you, I think it's I think the way that I've heard that some of these parties go down, the attention to detail and the care that the organizers put into it for everyone to have a really positive experience. I can see why people really enjoy these parties. And I will or will not confirm or deny if I've ever been to one or seen one.

And I think a lot of women feel the same way where they love to, you know, they prefer.

So anytime you're in a long term relationship and you want it to be sexually satisfying for the long term, you really want to have a lot of chicks up your sleeve. But none of those have to be extremely painful, physically uncomfortable, potentially morally disgusting to you. Or humiliating.

Or humiliating or something that you feel like you have to really kind of disassociate in order to be a part of. These are all signs that it's not the right thing for you. And it could be that it's not the right relationship for you.

But being able to say and know what you want and being able to communicate what you do want and what you don't want is always going to be a great skill across the board in any sort of dynamic.

And if you're thinking that you keep having to up the ante, up the ante, it might be time for you to see a sex therapist that can help you with the relationship stuff because dissatisfaction in the bedroom can obviously lead to lots of issues outside of the bedroom. But when it can come to a place where you're feeling like you might be, uh,

being used being abused being coerced being even just harmed in any way uh it's not a good sign it's a sign that something is really wrong and you should listen to your gut you know there's uh people out there that call it femme tuition and you should definitely be listening to that

My husband and I shower together sometimes. So, yeah, it happens.

Thank you so much, Aubrey. I love the insights that you're sharing, and I hope that they connect with the people who need to hear them. And for all of you survivors out there, just know I've seen firsthand in the work that I do with people. They can get to a much better and healthier place when it comes to both relationships and sexuality. So you've got that.

This is an iHeart Podcast.

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