Dr. Wendy Walsh

And it has created a culture where they think the quite violent and misogynistic kind of sex that is portrayed in pornography is normal.

So it used to be, I'm sorry to say, you had to be like our age before you got into the kinky stuff.

Now they're trying it out in like their teens and they're choking and doing all this stuff.

Now, girls want a relationship.

They want a boyfriend.

So they are going along with stuff that feels completely uncomfortable to them because the guys learned it on porn.

The other problem with chronic porn use within a relationship or as single men is it often causes DE, delayed ejaculation.

So let me explain how male sexuality works.

I'm not diagnosing you.

I'm just saying that when a male mind is presented with a constant visual of new partners, new fantasies, new women, the idea of training their brain to look at the same woman over and over in monogamy is very, very difficult.

We train our brains for anything.

The answer for men, of course, because so what ends up happening is they get in a relationship.

They don't get the fresh new image at all times.

And so they can become aroused, but they can't, as women say, they can't finish.

And so often men will go to the bathroom with their cell phone and climax in order to have that new fresh face.

So you've got to get off that addiction.

It's a visual addiction of new fresh faces.

If you want to do that.

But there's also other things we can do.

So in long-term monogamous relationships, and I love wigs and lingerie, novelty is everything.