Drea

If something was to happen to you in the hospital, they're not gonna say, where is his girlfriend?

Are you his wife?

Okay, well, where is his mother?

Are you this?

They might even, hell, go to the next wife before they go to the girlfriend.

And that makes a girlfriend feel not secure at the end of the day.

Like, if anything was to happen, you don't have no say.

You don't have no precedence over nothing.

When you're the person who spent every waking day with this man, you know his ins and outs.

You know him probably better than anyone because who you're in an intimate relationship with, they know you better than everyone because you're with them every damn day.

You see...

Every flaw you see, everything.

So as a woman, yeah, it's security because women are looking to men to be this person and the men are looking to the woman to cater to them, to make their life.

If they need something, we're dropping everything to be there.

It's all these things.

So when anything happens or anything, we don't get no say at the end.

Women want that safety and security.

It's not just about the money.

It's about being able to say, I'm his wife.

Like I can make these decisions.