Dusty Chipura

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369 appearances 1 recordings 1 series first heard Jul 2026 last heard 6 Jul

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So you're gonna let your boundaries be crossed, right?
You're gonna be taking a lot more responsibility for the other person than is
then is really healthy because again, you're gonna feel like it's your job to make sure that everything's okay in the relationship because at the heart of it all, you are the m you are more afraid of losing a person and their attachment to you than anything else.
And so that's gonna supersede you being able to have your own healthy like personality, your own healthy boundaries and centering your own needs.
And so the idea behind attachment is that it starts in childhood and it has sort of like an unconscious
like ripple effect out to our different relationships.
And and there is some critique that like people are attributing too much to attachment these days.
And like I get it.
Like
Like, you know, we latch onto something culturally as an idea and then we like totally run with it and we
You know, we start seeing like little anxious attachment, you know.
ghouls in every creeping in every corner.
And and and for sure, like not everything is due to your attachment style.
But I think there's something to be said here for like anxious attachment, rejection sensitivity, having having multi-generations of of ADHD adults, you know, in a family before we knew what ADHD was, how that might show up in someone's parenting as distractability, emotional volatility, you know, all that stuff, right?
And at the end of the at the end of the day, if my if my sort of concerns around bonding and attachment are are unfounded, which for some people they may be, at the end of the day, I think there's something to be said for a good pregnancy and labor experience in and of itself.
Nine months is no short amount of time.
A lot of distress can be can but in nine months, a lot of
things can be impacted in your life, in your career, in your well being, in your relationship.
And I think that if you can have a good pregnancy experience and look back on it fondly and and feel good about it, like
I think that's a worthy end unto itself.
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