Elena Brower

And it's very recent.

It's within the last two months.

And it's a joy.

It's a great joy.

I know my mother is like,

Part of it.

Influencing both of us.

I can't help but think I'm just a marionette here.

But it definitely, to your point earlier, it takes a lot of practice to just sit still in a very quiet room with or without other people and come to know your mind.

And that's how when you're sitting in front of someone else whom you think you know, you think you know your mind.

can sort of let go of what I think I know.

I can let go of what I think I know about her or anyone.

It's the same exact practice.

The parallel is right there.

Meditation to relating.

It's right there.

It's the ultimate form of caring is allowing someone to become who they are before your eyes without imposing your notion based on the past of who they've been.

I know that that's what I want.

I know that that's what I long for in my relationship and I get it from James.

And I get it from, I'm getting it from my sister right now because I've given it to her.